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For Your First Date, These 4 Questions Work Like Crazy
by: scottj65
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What you say during your first date will make or break your potential relationship. When ask the right first date questions you\'re increasing your chances of attracting her and going on future dates.
In essence the questions you ask is the most important aspect of your first date!
So what are the best first date questions?
Well I can tell you there is one type of question that DESTROYS your chances of creating a great first date...
It\'s the type of question which is boring!
Let me explain...
Great first dates involve conversations which build attraction and rapport. Therefore, your first date questions help your chances of increasing attraction. By using boring questions, you\'re doing nothing to create attraction.
In fact, if you\'re date is more like a job interview then two people enjoying yourself, then your chances of building attraction is minimal. Therefore you must know what questions to ask on your first date.
To help you out, here are a few first date questions you should ask during your conversation:
1- Ask \'what would you do\' questions
One method for drawing out a woman\'s personality is to ask her situational questions.
For instance you could ask: \"What would do if you became rich and never had to work again?\"
Asking questions like this can create interesting conversations, while showing you\'re a deep thinker. If you\'re having trouble thinking of \'what would you do\' questions, then grab a copy of \"The Book of Questions\" by Gregory Stock.
2- Talk about her dreams and aspirations
Women love to talk about their dreams and aspirations.
When you\'re on your first date, ask about the things she\'s always wanted to do. Once you do this, you\'ll make a connection to something where she has intense emotions.
What\'s great is when you discuss her dreams her feelings will be transferred to you. Basically you\'re creating rapport by making a connection to something she loves.
3- Ask About Hobbies and Interests
Women (and men) love to talk about their passions. If you can ask a woman about things she loves, she\'ll start talking about her hobbies with a very positive attitude. As a result, she\'ll start to transfer these positive emotions to you and will be attracted to you because you like the same things she does!
4- Bring sex into the conversation
One of my secret tricks to attract women is to work sexual innuendos into my first date.
If you can tease her in a sexual manner or bring up funny sexual stories that happened to one your friends, you can create a bit of sexual tension.
Once this happens she\'ll start to wonder what you\'re like in the bedroom. After that, things should progress really fast.
Asking the right first date questions can help you transition from barely knowing one another to quickly building attraction. If you\'re able to implement all 4 of these topics, you\'ll be on your way to instant dating success!
About the Author
Want to have a successful first date? If so, grab a copy of Scott Patterson's free ebook, where he teaches you a step-by-step system for locating, approaching, attracting and dating beautiful women.
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